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How Social Stories Can Help Your Child Navigate New Situations

For many children, and especially those with autism, new experiences can be overwhelming. Whether it’s attending a family gathering, getting a haircut, or even riding an escalator for the first time, not knowing what to expect can create stress and anxiety. 

Even everyday situations like going to a restaurant, joining a group activity, or using a public restroom can feel confusing or unpredictable. As a parent, you want to help your child feel prepared and confident, but explaining these situations in a way that makes sense to them isn’t always easy.

That’s when social stories can become a hugely beneficial resource. These short, structured stories use simple language and visuals to walk children through what will happen in a new situation, what’s expected of them, and how they respond. By providing a clear roadmap, social stories help children feel more secure, making it easier for them to engage with the world around them.

Why Social Stories Work

Many autistic children struggle with understanding social cues, unspoken rules, or changes in routine. Social stories take these abstract concepts and break them down into clear, predictable steps that make sense. They help children:

  • Know what to expect: Understanding what will happen ahead of time can ease anxiety and make transitions smoother.
  • Feel more confident: When children know how to handle a situation, they’re more likely to participate without fear or hesitation.
  • Develop social skills: Social stories explain behaviors like sharing, taking turns, or greeting new people in a way that feels natural.
  • Improve communication: Some children struggle with expressing themselves verbally, but social stories can give them the tools to understand and use appropriate responses.

By giving your child a structured way to process social situations, social stories provide the reassurance and predictability they need to feel comfortable and capable.

When To Use Social Stories

As a parent of a child on the autism spectrum, you know that even the smallest changes in routine or environment can quickly become a source of distress. Unexpected changes in plans, a completely new experience, or anything that involves the unknown brings anxiety and frustration. Social stories can be a lifeline in these moments, helping your child understand what to expect, what is expected of them, and how to navigate the situation with confidence.

They are especially helpful when introducing:

  • New routines: starting school, moving to a new house, adjusting to a different schedule.
  • Social interactions : making friends, taking turns, handling frustration, or understanding personal space.
  • Unfamiliar places: visiting a doctor, dentist, hair salon, or restaurant.
  • Emotional regulation: coping with loud noises, disappointment, or unexpected changes.

If there’s a situation that regularly causes stress or meltdowns, creating a personalized social story can help your child feel more prepared and in control, making everyday challenges easier to manage.

How to Create a Social Story for Your Child

You don’t have to be an expert to create a social story that works for your child. Just follow these simple steps:

  1. Pick a specific situation. Choose something your child finds challenging, like going to a birthday party or meeting a substitute teacher.
  2. Describe what will happen. Keep it simple and direct, using short sentences and clear language.
  3. Explain what’s expected. Include what they should do or say in the situation (e.g., “When I go to the dentist, I sit in the chair and open my mouth so the dentist can check my teeth.”).
  4. Use a positive, reassuring tone. Focus on what they can do rather than what they shouldn’t do.
  5. Include pictures or visuals. Photos, drawings, or icons can help make the story more engaging and easier to understand.

You can read the social story before the event to prepare your child, and repeat it leading up to the event. 

Navigating new situations can be tough for autistic children, but social stories give them the tools to succeed. By making the world feel more predictable and understandable, these simple stories build confidence, reduce anxiety, and empower kids to engage more fully with the people and experiences around them.

At Gersh Academy, we’re committed to supporting your child’s growth in a way that meets their unique needs. If you’re looking for strategies to help your child thrive, reach out to us today. We’re here to help!

Resources:

https://www.corticacare.com/care-notes/how-to-use-social-stories-to-support-your-child#:~:text=Focus%3A%20Social%20stories%20provide%20a,context%20and%20how%20to%20respond.
https://readysetconnect.org/social-stories-why-we-use-them-and-how-to-create-them/

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